About Me

Sherly Khodadad, MS, LMFT, is a psychotherapist, consultant, and clinical supervisor dedicated to supporting meaningful growth, deeper self-understanding, and greater fulfillment in both personal and professional life.

 

Sherly is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in West Los Angeles, California, with over 30 years of clinical experience. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples experiencing a wide range of psychological, emotional, and relational concerns, including depression, postpartum depression, anxiety, panic attacks, trauma and PTSD, relationship difficulties, cultural transitions, stress-related concerns, self-esteem issues, grief and bereavement, and fertility-related challenges.

Seeking therapy can be an important step toward greater emotional well-being and a more balanced life. Choosing a therapist is a personal decision, particularly during times when we may feel vulnerable or overwhelmed by life circumstances. Sherly approaches each person seeking her services with respect, compassion, and sensitivity to the courage it can take to share and examine deeply personal experiences.

Her approach is integrative and individualized, recognizing that no single method is appropriate for every person. She works collaboratively with each client and respects the pace at which insight, healing, and meaningful change unfold. Central to her work is creating a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship in which clients can deepen self-understanding, explore recurring emotional and relational patterns, and discover new ways of relating to themselves and others.

Her treatment approaches draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic and psychoanalytic perspectives, EMDR, Brainspotting, Humanistic-Existential therapy, psychoeducation, and rhythmic breathing and mind-body techniques.

Education & Clinical Training

Sherly earned her Master of Science in Psychology from the University of Southern California, graduating with honors. From 2002–2004, she pursued postgraduate training through a two-year certificate program in psychoanalytic psychotherapy at the Southern California Psychoanalytic Institute (SCPI) in Beverly Hills and later continued her studies at the Institute of Contemporary Psychoanalysis (ICP).

Her early clinical training took place in nonprofit community settings, including the Julia Ann Singer Center, Family Services of Los Angeles, and the LA Free Clinic, where she received extensive clinical supervision. She later served as a psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and training coordinator within respected mental health and community agencies, including Campion Mental Health Center, OPCC in Santa Monica, and Didi Hirsch.

In 2003, Sherly received training in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) through the EMDR Institute, Inc., as well as training in Critical Incident Stress Management and debriefing.

Sherly began her private practice in 1997, providing psychotherapy to adults, adolescents, and couples. Over the years, she has written and published psychology-related articles for Iranian American publications, appeared as a guest speaker on Iranian radio, participated in professional psychological panels, and remained engaged in continuing education and research.

An Integrative Perspective

Sherly has a particular interest in the relationship between mind, body, and spirit. Developments in our understanding of trauma, emotional stress, the nervous system, and the mind-body connection have further shaped her interest in integrating Western psychological approaches with Eastern perspectives on awareness, healing, and well-being.

Her work embraces an open and inclusive perspective that recognizes the interconnectedness of emotional, relational, physical, cultural, and spiritual dimensions of our lives. Rather than viewing individuals through symptoms alone, she seeks to understand the whole person and the unique experiences, relationships, and inner landscape that have shaped who they are.

 

Education & Training

May 1994 

Masters in Science, Clinical Psychology with emphsis in Marriage & Family Therapy 

University of Southern California, USC

May 1992

Graduated California State University, Northridge 

Bachelors in Science in Clinical Psychology/ Minor Human Sexuality

January 2003

EMDR Training Completed by EMDR INSTITUTE, INC

February 2023

BrainSpotting Training completed

October 2003

Critical Incident Stress Management Debriefing

September 2002

Domestic Violence Training by Sojourn affiliates OPCC

October 2002- June 2004

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Training at Southern California Psychoanalytic Institute in Beverly Hills, California, two-year certificate program.

March 1997- May 1997

Child Abuse Assessment & Reporting.  Basic Public Child Welfare, DCFS Training Project affiliated with UCLA.

June 1994

Suicide Prevention Training

2009

UCLA Mindfulness Meditation Course

LANGUAGES:    

Farsi & English

PUBLICATIONS:    

  • Articles written for Iranian-American Jewish Federation Magazine: Shofar 
  • “Relationships in the Pseudo-Modern World” Vol.101, (May 1996). 
  • “Prejudice, Hatred and Ignorance” Vol. 100, (April 1996). • 
  • “Toxic Shame: The Betrayal of the True Self” Vol. 98, (February 1996). 
  • “Marriage and Happiness” Vol.96, pp. 34-35, (December 1995).
  •  Researcher for the book published: Nobel Prize Winners by Ari    Babaknia, MD(1991-1992). 

Guest Speaker:    

  • “Shame and Healing Shame amongst Iranian American Families/ Awarness and Acceptance Seminar guest panelist at IAJF (Nov. 16 2009). 
  • “Spirituality and Psychology” at: Beverly Hilton Hotel ( (Sept. 28 2009). 
  • "Shame in the Persian Culture in America" at: Campion Mental Health Center (July 2004). Co-presented with Robert Moradi, M.D. 
  • "Domestic Violence & Trauma" at: The W Hotel (February 11th, 2004). The presentation was made to the organization of Women in Business. 
  • “Lessons from the Hearts” at: Temple Beth El 9/20/99.  
  • “Spirituality and Psychology” at: Temple Beth El on 9/30/98. 
  •  “Teen Issues” at: Temple Beth Am (01/11/98). 
  • “Marriage Among Iranian-Americans” (3/ 97) guest speaker at: Radio Sedaye Iran/ Sedaye Ham-Sedaee (Iranian Radio).
  • “The Healing Power of Forgiveness” at: Beverly Hilton Hotel (Sept.1996).
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